In the days before the GLP parents had a strong control over their children who had not reached the age of 18. If the child was not driving properly parental consent for the licence could be withdrawn and ICBC would cancel the child's drivers licence. This was an effective control over wayward young drivers.
Why Some Teens Make Bad Choices
A young person's brain is not fully matured until the age of 25. The prefrontal cortex manages executive functions such as impulse control and weighing consequences but may not do a great job of it for teenagers. If you are faced with a teen driver who is consistently making bad choices, what do you do?
This is a serious consideration as the BC Injury Research and Prevention Unit says that motor vehicle collisions are one of the leading causes of unintentional injury and death across all ages in BC.
Parents Lead by Example
The stage is set by parents long before the child learns to drive. As with many things in life, our children tend to follow our example. As I discussed in Perpetuating Mediocrity, some parents are ill equipped to teach a new driver.
Restrictions Limit Risk
The Graduated Licensing Program (GLP) sets some restrictions on new drivers to limit their exposure to risk. Parents need to be supportive in ensuring that these restrictions are obeyed and by establishing reasonable expectations for driving behaviour. If these expectations are consistently not met, there need to be explicit consequences. You may even consider the use of a family contract as a pre-condition before granting permission for your child's first licence.
Abuse of Parental Consent
The problem with this was that some parents used the system to impose their will on children for purposes not related to driving. This became apparent and the privilege was removed from the legislation. Once the child was licensed, the courts or the Superintendent of Motor Vehicles were the only entities that could cancel drivers licences.
If the child did not own their own vehicle, the only control that parents had was to restrict access to a vehicle. This is not as effective these days as many young people aged 16 and 17 do own their own vehicles.
Two Tools Still Available
There are still two tools of last resort that a parent can use to stop an irresponsible youth from driving before they harm themselves or others.
The first is a letter to the Superintendent of Motor Vehicles. If the Superintendent is satisfied that the youth presents a danger, he may prohibit the person from driving in the public interest. Police will enforce the prohibition.
The second is to withdraw parental consent for the registration and licensing of the youth's vehicle by writing to ICBC. The licence plates will be cancelled, effectively ending the ability to drive that vehicle legally. The police will also enforce driving without proper vehicle licence.
Don't Abuse the System
This is not a step to be take lightly by parents. If the withdrawal of parental consent for registration and vehicle licensing is abused, no doubt it will also be removed from the legislation as well.
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If you are faced with a teen driver who is consistently making bad choices, what do you do?
I would suggest your parenting skills require tweaking if the kid is "consistently" making choices, never mind bad ones! My observation of parenting in today's era is that too many parents are guilt driven and spend way too much time being their kids' "best friend." Those two positions muddies the water in parenting. You must always be firm secure and BE THE PARENT, "best friends" are acquired outside the parenting role as being a parent is the most valuable for the child. You're not always liked, or maybe even poo-pooed but a parent is the backbone of the family structure and security and firm parenting is a requirement. And because our driving environment has changed immensely in the past 40 years we really do need to relinquish that Ma/Pa instructor role. Professional lessons should be mandatory.
It would suggest a slippery slope in regards to a parents decision to withhold/withdraw their young drivers permission to drive at anytime to be "abusive." Perhaps the child is too immature or not demonstrated responsibility for their driving privilege. Its not too often a responsible parent will disclose their child's poor driving skills, much like a parent of a criminal, they rarely forfeit/admit to their child's guilt. Besides, wouldn't "privileges" like cell phone, TV, friends be used as a tool for discipline? How is driving any different? In fact, it should be taken very seriously...... after all....It is a PRIVILEGE not a RIGHT.
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